Turning 26

I turned 26 last July 14, 2025, and now I'm on my way to 27. Here I am, reflecting on what it means to have lived a quarter of a century. And honestly? I'm quite satisfied with the life I've experienced so far.

I've never been the type to stress over comparing myself to others. I move at my own pace, and that's worked out well for me. One thing I'm particularly proud of is becoming an expatriate, working abroad in Malaysia. It wasn't planned—I was actually considering going to Japan through an LPK program, but on a whim, I applied to Malaysia and got accepted. I took that as a sign and went for it.

Now, after a year as an expat, I'm setting my sights on new goals.


The Road That Led Me Here

I graduated from SMKN 2 Salatiga, majoring in Information Technology. After graduation, I tried applying to polytechnics and IT-related majors but didn't make it. So I enrolled at IAIN Salatiga, taking Sharia Business Management—initially planning to stay just a year while retrying for IT programs in Yogyakarta.

But after a year, I got comfortable in Salatiga and decided to see it through. My final year coincided with COVID-19. Even my graduation was hybrid—half offline, half online. Despite the chaos, I became the valedictorian of MBS 2017 for the 2021 graduation period and had the honor of delivering the alumni pledge.

Valedictorian speech
Valedictorian, delivering the alumni pledge (2021)

During my 6th semester, I ventured into entrepreneurship and opened 'Teras Karsa Coffee & Tea Bar' in Jebres, Solo. It was an area heavily dependent on university students. One month in, COVID hit. Students went home. The shop went bankrupt.

Teras Karsa Coffee
Teras Karsa Coffee & Tea Bar in Solo (2020)

After graduation, I co-founded 'Kon Ngopi' with four classmates—a student-oriented food stall (Burjo Mahasiswa) in Salatiga. It became a hub for students: meetings, hangouts, thesis discussions. The opening was even graced by Sujiwo Tejo. We partnered with Pak Ilyas M.Ag., a lecturer from UNNES and the caretaker of Gambang Syafaat Semarang.

Kon Ngopi opening
Opening of Kon Ngopi with Sujiwo Tejo

But life moved on. Friends got married, responsibilities grew. I took a job in Semarang, and the coffee shop eventually closed.

Best Agent 2023
Best Agent Award 2023

After two years in Semarang, I started thinking about Japan again—maybe an LPK program. But then, on a whim, I applied to Malaysia. And I got in. I took it as rezeki and accepted.

Farewell Semarang
Farewell from Semarang team

Now it's been a year as an expat, working as a Risk Account Analyst. There's not much I can share about the work life itself—I rarely take selfies with colleagues—but here I am with my team. It's a different world, but I'm learning.

Working in Malaysia
Me and my colleague in Malaysia

A Note on Family

Two years after I graduated, my father passed away. It's a wound that still feels fresh sometimes. But I carry his memory with me, and I believe he would be proud of who I'm becoming.

With father
With Bapak (late)
Family photo
With my full family after graduation

As for marriage—no plans yet, no partner yet. I've been hurt before, but I've made peace with it. That pain became fuel. My focus now is on pursuing a master's degree through LPDP. Where the wind takes me after that, only time will tell.


Ambitions for 2026

These are the goals I'm manifesting this year:

💪 Work out for 30 minutes, at least 3 times a week
📚 Achieve IELTS 7.0 in all bands
🎓 Become an LPDP Awardee (UK or Netherlands)
✍️ Write blog posts regularly
💰 Save at least 1 gram of gold every month
🗺️ Solo travel and explore areas near home (Salatiga, Semarang, Solo)

Solo Exploration

I want to explore more of my hometown region through solo travel—Salatiga, Semarang, Solo. Every place I visit, I want to document and share the stories through this blog. It's my way of staying connected to my roots while embracing new experiences.


Looking Forward

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I'm grateful for who I've become at 26. Every failure, every closed coffee shop, every rejection—they all led me here. I accept what has happened with an open heart. Ikhlas.

Now, I'm looking ahead. A master's degree. New adventures. More stories to write. Wherever the journey takes me, I'll keep moving at my own limit.

Here's to the next chapter. Who knows where life will take you?

— Ygni


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